I hate this fragrance note! What is it?

I need help pinpointing the scent note that is super popular right now in many women’s and men’s scents? I also smell it in many laundry scents. It’s sharp and almost like a synthetic lavender perhaps but horrible as I love essential oil lavender. It’s prominent in Ariana Grande REM for instance. I don’t own many fragrances due to migraine sensitivity and only have a few signature scents and am so frustrated with many popular scents having this particular note. I will be going out this weekend and will list a few more with some names that have it (I have a great nose). It’s definitely not in Tiffany & Co., Glossier You, Alien (had to really sniff this one out), Philosophy Warm Cashmere Fresh Crème as I own these and love them. Thank you!

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